đụ má mày
What does đụ má mày mean? đụ má mày is a Vietnamese nuclear that translates to “fuck you / fuck your mother” in English.
Literal Translation
fuck mother you
Meaning & Usage
"fuck you / fuck your mother"
Full form adding 'mày' (you - disrespectful). Directly addresses the target's mother. Most aggressive form.
Examples in the Wild
Đụ má mày! (Fuck your mother!)
When to Use It
Context
- Expressing strong frustration or emphasis
- Only among very close friends who share this register
Avoid
- Professional or formal settings
- Around elders or authority figures
- Public spaces — will cause genuine offense
- Almost any situation — this is as offensive as it gets
- Mixed company or unfamiliar social groups
- Job interviews, meetings, or customer-facing situations
Cultural Context
EXTREME: Combining mother insult with disrespectful pronoun 'mày' (instead of formal 'bạn'). Guaranteed to escalate conflicts.
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“shameless person / thick-skinned bastard”
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