به درک (Ba darak)

bæ dæˈrækexclamation, religious

What does به درک (Ba darak) mean? به درک (Ba darak) is a Dari moderate that translates to “go to hell / to hell with it” in English.

to the lowest level of hell

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"go to hell / to hell with it"

Darak is the Islamic concept of the lowest, most torturous level of Jahannam (hell) — reserved for hypocrites and the worst sinners. Telling someone 'ba darak' is wishing them to that specific pit. In practice, it's used as casually as English speakers say 'to hell with it.'

برو به درک! (Boro ba darak! - Go to hell!) — Standard dismissal when you're done arguing.

Context

  • Casual conversations with friends
  • Informal settings where profanity is accepted
  • As a spontaneous exclamation

Avoid

  • Professional or formal settings
  • Around religious or conservative communities
  • Job interviews, meetings, or customer-facing situations

Cultural Context

Islamic eschatology describes seven levels of hell, each worse than the last. Darak (sometimes 'dark') is the very bottom. Despite this terrifying theological meaning, Afghans use it constantly — about traffic, about a job they hate, about a relative who annoyed them. The gap between the literal meaning and the casual usage is a perfect example of how profanity erodes over time through sheer repetition.

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dæˈjuːs

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nɑːˈmærd

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oˈlɑːɣ

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