ngậm mõm

[ŋəm˧˨ʔ mɔm˧˥]command, dehumanizing

What does ngậm mõm mean? ngậm mõm is a Vietnamese strong that translates to “shut your trap / shut your snout” in English.

shut snout

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"shut your trap / shut your snout"

Telling someone to shut their mouth, but using 'mõm' (an animal's snout) instead of 'miệng' (human mouth). You are commanding a barking dog to be quiet.

A gang member demanding silence: 'Mày ngậm mõm lại cho tao!' (Shut your snout right now for me!)

Northern variant

Context

  • Informal settings where profanity is accepted
  • Expressing strong frustration or emphasis

Avoid

  • Professional or formal settings
  • Around elders or authority figures
  • Job interviews, meetings, or customer-facing situations

Cultural Context

Using animal anatomy for human parts is a quick and effective way to insult someone in Vietnamese. This is an extremely aggressive dismissal. If 'im đi' is 'shut up', 'ngậm mõm' is 'shut your fucking trap before I hit you'. It's the language of street fights and pub brawls.

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