小三 (xiǎo sān)
What does 小三 (xiǎo sān) mean? 小三 (xiǎo sān) is a Chinese strong that translates to “mistress / the other woman” in English.
Literal Translation
little three
Meaning & Usage
"mistress / the other woman"
Third person in relationship; mistress.
Examples in the Wild
他是小三 (Tā shì xiǎosān - She is the mistress)
When to Use It
Context
- Informal settings where profanity is accepted
- Expressing strong frustration or emphasis
- Direct confrontation (use with caution)
Avoid
- Professional or formal settings
- Around elders or authority figures
- Job interviews, meetings, or customer-facing situations
Cultural Context
Numerical slang: third wheel in marriage (wife = 1, husband = 2, mistress = 3). Socially stigmatized role in Chinese culture where extramarital affairs are common but condemned.
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